Monday, November 30, 2009
Relationship

Yesterday is Sunday, so I went to BF’s place, he cooked the soup for me and later we went to his classmate’s place, we asked him to go out for lunch, and then we chatted.

His classmate is also Electric Engineer, that isn’t any special of him, but his wife is the woman that I pay attention to, her life is totally difference between mine.

When at my 16s, I am just went out of school, mother told me that I should work hard and save money to support the family, so that is what I did, I worked hard and didn’t pay any attention to other, like love. Until I am 26 years old, that I am already at the high time for marriage.

Very dislike me, she is from a wealth family, and at her very young age, her mother told her that to look for a wealth man for marriage. So she is at the same age of me to go out from school and looked for a job at 16s. So, under her mother instruction and teaching, she started to look for Mr Right from 16s, so it is very easy for her to look for a man, because at so young age, that is a lot of guys are not marry, not like me, I am start looking at 26s, and most of the guys at that age already married.

So she did, she didn’t pay any attention to her work, not to mention study. But she pays attention to her boyfriend, now became her husband. Because of that need to support her life, her husband work hard and study hard to get enough money for expenditure of two people. So her husband is quite successful as now he is the chief Engineer in the company.

For me, I work hard and study hard and I save the money as much as I could, and then pay them all to the house, when I look for Mr Right, I can hardly find the one that suitable one for me, even the present one, as he doesn’t have any pressure of life that only need to support himself, so he doesn’t need to work hard to support another person’s living, and he doesn’t at any savings.

What a big difference, different life attitude leads to totally different result.